We do not only want to know why individual subjects react to social realities with mental illness, but much more, which psychic realities are wanted by society and how these become in borderline areas something that contradicts this intention, because these psychic realities are in the overshoot caricaturing and questioning themselves. The context becomes clear in the case of the narcissistic personality disorder with a strong manipulative influence, which is pathologized only in overshoot as a mental illness, but otherwise desirable. In fact, for all of them, easily recognizable and obvious, Donald Trump represents that type of character, though he is not an exception but a particularly obvious one. In particular, the type is characterized by the inability to empathize, and subordinates all action – including speech – to one’s own power goals. This type may have emerged as a descendant of warlords who were responsible for the demise of thousands, hundreds of thousands of people and simply could not afford empathy. Today the guy works as a conscienceless businessman or Hallodri in politics. (Do we need such a type for our societies to work? I argue for the opposite!) More generally the type of manipulative narcissist is still the socially constructed model of males*. The pathological cases are just the tip of the iceberg. This personality model haven’t been imposed on women* in such a general way. In other words, the type of narcissistic manipulator is the psychic reality of the man* who, according to Lacan, carries the phallus like an insignia and identifies with the insignificant power position, that deviates from his ‘true’ being and alienates him.